Oh, don’t judge too harshly. Human beings are complicated creatures, and we are dealing with many things at any given time. We don’t know what is going on in each other’s lives, or what has gone on in the past, and probably it’s not our business. How about if we turn it inward? Instead of paying too much attention to them, how are you stacking up?
Joseph Serwach left a quote that has stuck with me that this reminded me of -- "everyone wants to change the world, but no one wants to change themselves."