Thanks for this comment and the comment on the last, Raven! It means more than you know. As for my family, I hope they have a change of heart. I've consulted my Asian friends who I know have pretty similar cultural dynamics and families and a lot of us agree...that traditional Chinese dads are notoriously stubborn and reluctant to admit they're wrong. I hope I'm wrong, but I'm certainly not optimistic about my family. My fiancee and I will always have each other at the end of the day! Thank you for the comment!